Carly-Jay Metcalfe is a writer and spiritual carer who lives in the country. She is a full-time healthcare provider (to herself) after receiving a double lung transplant in 1998 with just days to live when she was 21. Cancer tried to kill her in 2007, but failed (again), which leads her to believe that she’s impossible to kill. Either that or she’s really bad at dying.
Her fiction, memoir and poetry have been published in various anthologies, and her short story ‘The Twelve Hands of Mother Lode’, published in Wet Ink’s ‘Emerge’ anthology was lauded as ‘warm and evocative’ by the Sydney Morning Herald. It was also a finalist in the State Library of Queensland Young Writers Award many moons ago. A work of non-fiction was published in the Vignette Press ‘Death Mook’ in 2009, and more recently, she was invited to collaborate on a poem for the 200th issue of Overland, has been published in the Stylus Poetry Review, Four and Twenty, Australian Poetry’s online publication sotto, several issues of Regime: magazine of new writing, and most recently Cordite Poetry Review and Tincture Journal.
Carly-Jay has presented papers at writing conferences, performed her work at the Woodford Folk Festival and was the first poet to perform at the 2high festival. She has been short-listed and runner-up for various literary awards, appeared at the Emerging Writers Festival in Melbourne, and was poet-in-residence at Black Star Coffee for the first six months of 2012 where she wrote more than 11,000 words of poetry *wipes brow*
Carly-Jay is currently working on her memoir and a novel set in 1973 outback Queensland – both projects she will continue working on until they’re filed under ‘felina’.*
Carly-Jay’s life direction changed in 2010 when she discovered her true passion and purpose in caring for the dying through Karuna, a hospice service in Brisbane run by Tibetan Buddhist nuns. Carly-Jay has engaged in other death care education including a six month Death Midwifery course with world-renowned palliative care physician and death educator Dr. Michael Barbato, as well as ‘Deathwalker’ training with Zenith Virago from Byron Bay’s Natural Death Care Centre.
In October of 2014, Carly-Jay was asked to speak at TEDx Brisbane where she spoke about her life, her death(s), her passion for caring for the dying and how we need to weave conversations about death into the everyday. In 2015, Carly-Jay halted her Masters studies to complete her first unit of Clinical Pastoral Education, and now works at Brisbane’s biggest trauma hospital as a secular spiritual carer, of which she was the first. She is also on the Metro South Clinical Ethics Committee.
In 2017, Carly-Jay did her palliative care volunteer training with Karuna, and through her work, writing and speaking, she is hoping to get as many people thinking and talking about living their best life and what that means to them. She also hopes that by writing in the third person that she doesn’t come across as a twat of the highest order.