My good friend, writing peer and all round genuinely awesome woman, Carly Findlay has today written for Daily Life about her experience with false cures and how, at the end of the day, she doesn’t want to be cured of her rare and painful skin condition Ichthyosis. Like Carly, I’ve never wanted to be cured from Cystic Fibrosis. I’ve wanted to be free of it, which is different to a cure, but this dis-ease has shaped me into the person I am today and I’m proud of my ability to survive against often insurmountable odds. For The Two Carlys (like The Two Ronnies, but hotter), life is a gift.
Carly was kind enough to ask my opinion about how the lure of false hope can be a soul destroying experience – not only for the person suffering from an illness, but for their families and friends. You can read Carly’s article HERE and her blog can be found HERE where she writes prolifically about disability rights, appearance diversity, her personal battles and victories, and other very important issues, including her impending wedding – YAY!
Here is a photo of us taken last year when we met in Melbourne. It had been a long time coming. We share far more than our names.